happenstance

Back for good?

2007-11-02T08:04:00.000-07:00

I have been away for the longest time. In fact I have been back home for a week now but was busy cleaning up the mess I left behind.

Funny how we only notice the mess in our lives after taking a good break outside of it.

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It was something impromptu I did and I am relieved that I did it. One morning I woke up and decided I wanted a break from this routine - 7am snooze - the same face on the mirror with the after shave- the same cup of java with the same coffee machine since the past 3 years - get caught in the jam for a good 45 minutes while listening to the Hitz Morning Crew- that's it.

So I made a turn and took the car to the airport and watched it planes flew. Feeling a tinge of unfamiliar but exhilarating freedom after calling in sick, I stood beyond the runway with my arms folded and thought, "Wouldn't it be great if I am in Bali right now?"

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Three days after saw me packing my backpack for Bali. Boss thought I needed a break as well - to clear up my accumulated annual leave.
"It's just going to be a pinch without you here. Go, Bali waits!" he chirped more eagerly than I could - as if he could not contain his joy of seeing me leave.
Mr. D - as I would call him, is a man of his own distinction. Though with many years of being in the advertising industries, he kept his feet (and also the others) firmly on the ground and I respect his ways of seeing things that people normally take for granted. He saw beyond the surface and into the character and lives with the belief that everyone deserves their chances.

And so he believed in my chance to go for a much deserved holiday in Bali - so much so, that my air fare is complimentary from Mr. D (and it is not even a year end bonus).
If you wonder if I suck up to him at work, let's just say it's all about being in the right place at the right time.

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Bali was great. I spent a good week there and I even learned how to surf at Ulu Watu (though for every 5 times I got on the board I fall 6 times- did I say 6 times? The waves are just so intimidating). But most of the time I would just travel on foot for sight-seeing; pointing and shooting whatever that caught my eyes around the town of Nusa Dua.

On the third day I decided to pack my bag again and went up north to Sanur then to Denpasar for the arts and cultural heritage. I loved the details that forms the Balinese art and culture, it has a certain mystical air and nature that draws my attention like no other. It had its element revolving around nature while being mysterious at the same time - something that always win my curiosity over. Upon hearing that there was more of these in Ubud, I travelled up north again at night.

And in Ubud was where I stayed on for the rest of the week.

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It was the place I thought that I should have came long time ago. Being in Ubud has somehow awaken my deep senses, something that has been suppressed by work and routine back where I came from. The exotic music, the fine art performances, the handwork, the culture, the food. Everything about it ignites my senses.

Even the senses which I have been trying to suppress myself-when I caught myself wishing she was sitting in front of me enjoying the local cuisine as much as I was. Then suddenly the food tasted bland. Her jeans should be lying on the bed next to my shirt- and that night the single bed felt so empty for me.

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We could have came to this place together and I know that it was meant to be. Heck, we might even start a life here and never go back to Malaysia. She knew me and I knew her, cheesy but she finishes up my sentences and knows it when I want a back rub. I knew where she wanted to be just one look into her eyes, I knew the small wrinkles on her nose when she grins - but what I didn't know was that she loved me so much until it breaks her heart. I did not see that coming...

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Ubud would be where we belong. If she is willing to forgive, let go and forget.

"Everyone deserve their chances," said Mr. D.

I needed that chance so badly and she tore it away as if she was the only one who felt the pain.

Ubud soothed that throbbing pain that I tried to numb with my job.

Both of us would belong here. We'd let Ubud take that dark stain and make it beautiful.

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That was 2 weeks ago. Before the trip to Bali, work piled up to my nose and blogging certainly does not feel like a valid vocabulary to me. But now that I am back, I felt the need to engrave this memory I had in Bali. Knowing that at the end of the day, no matter where I'd be... she's always there. And I don't just want her everywhere anymore, I want her here - right next to me.

And now that I am back with new breath in my lungs, am I back for good to mend things up?

Will she give me a chance that does not torture me?

I guess Ubud has showed me that it is worth it.

About Cynewulf Part 2

2007-08-29T18:56:00.000-07:00

A continuation in discovering more about myself...

And so I found myself sitting in front of the laptop with my fingers furiously punching the keys, sending incomprehensible lines of words running across the glossy screen. "What do I write about myself today?"

My childhood was nothing extravagant, nevertheless poignant. I remembered the days of running barefooted ahead of my grandmother's scream into the muddy field - getting myself all dirty and puffing for breath. It was something I loved to do after the rain in the late afternoon; the smell of earth mixed with the raw grass enthralled me - and it still does.

Being kept under the watchful eyes of my granma, I didn't really had a time of liberty to act like how a true young boy would be. I flew my kite next to my dog while the other boys flew their's behind their bicycles, I sat on the bench while I watched them climb trees and skin their knees on its rough barks and I drew the fishes under the sea behind the window while they played football out there. I wished I had friends who I can play with - or at least talk with. My dog, Astro was my only faithful companion, with its spitz-dog enthusiasm - I found contentment in being his master. Astro was very much like me, enthusiastic but always running to the wrong things, adorable but misunderstood, faithful but forlorn.

I was the only son after my elder brother passed on - thus explains the over- protectiveness of my family towards their little bundle of "joy". I never had a look at my brother as I was still confined within the bars of my crib. I could barely speak my first word before he succumbed to leaukemia. My family did not kept memories of my brother away from me, for some reasons I felt was too obsecure to understand. My mom would talk about him when she bathes me, granma would tell me his favourite dishes when she cooks a storm in the kitchen and pa still tucks my brother's photo within the folds of his wallet.

I wore his clothes, I played his toys and there are times in my young mind I wished that he was still around. I would have someone to climb the trees with, he would ride the bicycle while I sit behind flying the kite and I would have the guts to play football with the other kids because he would approach them first.

It was five years of being with myself and Astro (he came when I was 3 and I named him after my then favourite cartoon character, Astro Boy) before my younger brother arrived into the quiet house. Wrapped snugly in a blue blanket, he was anything but a picture of serenity - his cries and screams entered through the door even before he does. There and then I knew, my life was about to change and Astro standing next to me stared unblinkingly at the squirming pink creature in my mother's arms. We call him Chris.

Day after day, I grew to be used to his cries, then his laughs, then his gu-ga-ga talks, then his swaying baby steps, then his mess after each meals, and the list goes on. As he grew, I grew also - out of my brother's clothes and I watched Chris play with the toys which I used to. The trees doesn't look so tall now, I could balance my own bicycle and I have made new friends - Leong, Rus and Raz from the football team. Astro has grown older now, he runs slower after the stick but good enough to entertain Chris.

It did not take long before I realized the new role I had to play. I am the older brother to Chris now.
He would be wearing my clothes now, he would play my toys now, he would ask me to draw him all the fishes under the sea. And I will care for him as how I wished my older brother would.

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About Cynewulf Part 1

2007-08-28T00:33:00.000-07:00

After 3 blog posts that obsecurely represents myself, I guess it is time for a self introduction to those who bothered to read this blog.

This blog came into being one lazy Sunday afternoon, with a cup of java in my hands and Stephen King's Different Seasons on the other, with no plans after a hectic week at work. I took a seat on my unutilised couch, right in front of the laptop's glossy screen and saw my own reflection.

And decided there and then to have a blog. Its nothing significant, being lost in the myriad of blogs all around the world, but what the heck... working in an advertising agency has drained me technically. Why not store up whatever personal touch of myself in this cyber escape before I lose it all?

So here goes... something abuot myself but nothing more than is required to know.

My name isn't excalty Cynewulf (as most of you english lit freaks can tell) but I have been fascinated by this name since I was in high school. I read his works between the dog-eared and yellowed pages of a post-colonnial publication, staked heavily beneath the dusty age-old books in the library. I relate to his writing until today and that is how the name came up: Cynewulf.

My real name? Call me Caleb.

harap

2007-08-19T08:18:00.000-07:00

Andai harimu berakhir tanpa senyuman
Akan ku ukirkan dengan isi hatiku
Walau gelita malam sanggup menyejuk
Akan ku hibakan tanganmu dalam tanganku

Biar masa berlalu tanpamu
Tapi jangan benarkan aku tinggalkan mindamu
Biar hari bertambah sunyi
Jangan biarkan hatimu terkulai sepi

Anggap aku yang menanti
Anggap aku yang kasihi
Anggap aku yang berharap
Anggap aku yang setia

Tak pernah aku merasakan cinta sindah ini
Tak pernah aku merasakan rindu sedalam ini
Tak pernah aku merasakan harapan sebenar ini
Tak bisa inginkan yang lain

Selamanya, aku terjatuh
Saban hari ku akan mencintaimu
Walaupun wajahku tak ditenung
Suaraku tak didengar
Diriku tak disentuh
Bisikan kasih tak disampai

Namun,

Aku di sana - sampai dewiku sanggup menerima

life as i see it

2007-08-14T06:58:00.000-07:00

time is unforgiving
it outruns me when i wanted to catch my breath
it stops right there when it hurts the most
it wont turn back so i can mend my mistakes
it wont turn back so i can see her again

love is extreme
it puts me on top of the world
it puts me in the darkest hours
it puts me in a daydream
it puts me in a nightmare
i am overwhelmed by joy
i am overwhelmed by tears
i am overwhelmed by guilt
i am overwhelmed by pride

life is short
where am i?

prelude

2007-08-14T03:01:00.000-07:00

Then he who created this world…honoured us and gave us gifts…and also sowed and set in the mind of men many kinds of wisdom of heart. One he allows to remember wise poems, sends him a noble understanding, through the spirit of his mouth. The man whose mind has been given the art of wisdom can say and sing all kinds of things.